“I’m doing all that.” Are you really?
I often hear from people who can’t seem to get interviews that their doing all of the networking they can. They claim to be following the rules and “doing all that.” If they’re not getting interviews, then they’re not “doing all that.” Period.
This is how you’re going to find your next job, and the job after that: You’re going to be at the center of some unforeseen series of events, events that baffle the mind and seem to have been coordinated by some greater intelligence determined to get you to the next stage in your career.
Unless, of course, you don’t take networking very seriously.
Human beings are amazing filters. They connect information in ways that are unexpected and cannot be planned. When you are the recipient of one or more of these connectsions, you will wonder how the right person was at in the right place for you to have that oh so important conversation.
Those of us that take networking seriously experience this kind of serendipity on a regular basis. Are you?
As it turns out, I’ve got a lot more work to do when it comes to networking. Thom Singer, author of Some Assembly Required how to Make, Grow and Keep Your Business Relationships has a cool little application called the Networking Quotient. I got to hear Thom speak recently, and he makes it pretty clear: your life depends on it; your business, career, and, in Thom’s case, the life of his daughter.
My score is 45.
“Good Networking Skills. You are on the right track with your networking, but it would be beneficial to your career if you made your professional network more of a priority. Your score proves that you realize the people who make up your social and professional network are not just supporting players, but have lead roles in your current and future success. You only need to make some minor adjustments to take your business relationships to the next level.”
What do I lack? It turns out that I need to do a better job of following up. I apologize if you are nodding your head in agreement.
My book and CardboardResume seek to answer the question, “What do I do when I get a new contact.” Thom proposes a customized program of follow up. I believe that your follow up should always include an email inviting someone to join your career network by sending one magic email.
I’ll tell you more about the Magic Email in my next post.
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